A beautiful experience of opening into an enlightened state of Love

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Enlightenment, mindfulnessMindfulness has always been a journey from living in my mind and ego towards living in my heart. Along the way there has been an ongoing shift away from fear towards greater love in my life. This has been very beautiful for myself and those around me.

The journey has often required a willingness to step into vulnerability; to feel fear of something and move towards it, to be willing to not know, to be willing to follow my heart even when my head says “is this OK ?”

Gradually my whole life has shifted to something I never would have thought possible 10 years ago and for which I have immense gratitude.

Recently while on retreat with Isira, I was able to open into pure being, pure love. That experience is worth describing because it has such valuable learning. The energy of pure being or love is what is offered to the world more continuously by those beings who live in enlightenment.

Moving from living in our mind ego identity towards living from our heart or consciousness, does involve a process. For a very long time, since I was a teenager there has always been a willingness to face myself. To see whatever issues I had or to see my challenging emotions and to seek counselling to learn how to move beyond them. I certainly have made thousands of mistakes along the way and failed many times. However the overall pattern was towards opening up and growth. I have also had a willingness to work on meditation, to be still and sit with whatever comes, and to be present as much as I can in my daily life. Both this continuous self reflection and meditation have played an essential role in facilitating the ability to move beyond identity.

In October 2017 while on a beautiful retreat with Isira near Uluru, I first started to be able to enter a state of “emptiness” during meditation.Emptiness enabled me to see that we are much more than our physical body and the identity we focus on. We are also spirit/consciousness and in this space we are connected to the entire universe and beyond, because everything is that. When I came home from Uluru( I will describe Uluru more another time) it was about practicing being in that space of emptiness.This was challenging because of something called resistance.

Resistance is a fear based desire to withdraw from openess or consciousness because our ego wants to cling to what it knows. The ego doesn’t want to face challenging emotions or conditioning that may come up when we open up and it definitely wants to hold onto it’s identity . So I noticed a continuous desire to want to close again, to be safe and not vulnerable. Always the work was to be willing to do the opposite; to be open, to be vulnerable. Sometimes I succeeded and sometimes I didn’t but if the willingness was there and forgiveness for closed moments, the overall progress seemed to be towards openess. So it became possible to stay in that place of emptiness for short periods of time.

I knew there was a deeper opening beyond emptiness, because I had touched in on it at Uluru. However it was so overwhelming at the time, the mind wanted to withdraw. Some call this opening beingness or pure love/light .It is the love or consciousness that animates everything, that is the source of everything around us.

In the weeks leading up to Isira’s recent retreat in NSW I felt an increasing momentum towards greater opening. This is going to sound very unusual but I felt Isira’s facilitation of my process during that time even though she was in NSW and I live in WA. Isira says “consciousness is everywhere”. If a being is deeply living within consciousness as she is, boundaries like position and time don’t have much meaning. In consciousness we are all connected all the time.

From the first evening of the retreat I started to be aware of the light. It is an essence of pure love that really is at the core of everything. It was both incredibly beautiful and incredibly terrifying. My heart was wanting to dive in and my mind/ego was wanting to resist at all costs and hopefully escape.The ego part of me started to have very negative thoughts towards Isira. I mentioned this to her and she told me that it was not uncommon for enlightened beings to experience  “murderous thoughts” in the prelude before enlightenment.This made me feel a little better, not that I was having murderous thoughts at that stage.

Over the next few days there was gradually more and more beautiful opening towards light, however the ego became equally terrified and the resistance great. There was a moment during meditation where it felt like I was faced overwhelmingly with a choice to move more deeply into the light. At precisely that moment  immense fear also arose that somehow I was not enough. Somehow I was too “bad” that I was going to be rejected. So my mind internally said to consciousness in the form of Isira, “I will prove to you how bad I am and then see if you reject me.” For the next  half an hour I really did have murderous thoughts towards Isira/consciousness. I just had to watch them passing through my mind, half of me engaged with them half of me stepping towards the light.The thoughts were more dark than I have ever experienced in my whole life . It’s like I was really testing consciousness/Isira, really seeing if the love would flinch when I demonstrated my darkness. Looking back on it now some of those thoughts were fairly entertaining. I really had thoughts of murder and in fairly gruesome ways even the archetypal image of nailing her to a cross, but also I was going to steal her beauty ( she’s very beautiful) or destroy it if I couldn’t steal it. The thoughts did get fairly dark. Amongst all of this I was feeling the love emanating from consciousness/Isira and despite everything that I was throwing at her the love only increased, there was not even the slightest flinch it just grew.Overwhelmingly then I knew that it didn’t matter what I did , what I had ever done or what I could do in the future I was always loved. Actually I was and never have been separate from that love.Now I totally understand the biblical story of the prodigal son who was lovingly welcomed home (love/consciousness) despite having left his father (consciousness) and misbehaving.

Slowly I was able to let myself enter into the light. At first my whole body was shaking, in equal parts terrified and blissful, but it gradually lessened. I was able, with many tears of joy, to settle into being. I clearly know now at an experiential level that we are the light, at the core we are love, we are consciousness it is the same thing. I know that fear itself, the desperate fear I was feeling of somehow not being enough or being bad, has never been real. Fear is part of the mind ego identity we all cling to, though it feels real there really is no reason for it because the consciousness that animates all of us is love.

I was told later that the ego/mind is a collective and not all of those dark thoughts were entirely mine. I really did have a sense  that the more humans who are willing to keep stepping towards light/love the more we shift a collective fear on this earth. It felt like that whole process was healing not just for me but on a wider scale.

The entire retreat was very beautiful, I experienced depths of love I had never felt before and way beyond my previous experience. In that place of love I felt connected to everything and a feeling there could never be a sense of not enough or of separation because it was so overwhelmingly whole.

My whole body has felt an increasing vibration of love ever since the retreat even though the depth of the experience has lessened. In meditations now I can sit in love/ beingness for periods of time much more comfortably than before. However naturally the mind/ego is still there and there is a way to go. The mind still wants to withdraw from being in that space and there is ongoing work to keep opening and keep being vulnerable. Even more beautifully there is a desire to share love with the world and all I come into contact with. I do not get that right every time, sometimes if I am caught in a moment of resistance I will still close a little or not be loving. However love is growing all the time.

I really understand now the central fear for all of us caught in mind/ego. I see this in every client that walks through my door for counselling or mindfulness. At the core there is always some sense of not enough or bad or not worthy or guilt. This creates fear that we will be rejected or that we are separate from love and that fear controls our lives. For all of us if we really tune in we can see how much fear has made us withdraw or defend perhaps in our work or sport or social relationships. When really all the time we already are love and entirely lovable.If I am really love itself whilst overwhelmed with fear and having the most dark thoughts I have ever had, so are you.All we have to do is accept fear and step through it to offer the world our beauty. The darkness that is in all of us is created only by those core fears. Once we can acknowledge our darkness with absolute acceptance we can start to focus on love.

Everything that happens in our lives is the choice of our deepest self, so we might as well open up to the wisdom life is offering. It does not matter in the slightest how often we slip up or fail, what matters is the courage to keep going, not so much with forceful trying but rather gentle compassionate application.Then the journey towards love will continue. Really we are all the same, the fears that came up for me and that are still there in a smaller degree, are no different to the fears of every human. So we might as well accept ourselves and each other and move towards love.

My deepest acknowledgements go to Isira who facilitated everything I have described. For the last few years she has been my teacher and I am immensely grateful for the unconditional love she has shown me and for the loving service she offers to the world. Namaste Isira.